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They say the Second Labour is easier than the first…

They say the Second Labour is easier than the first… don’t they? Yes, they do say that, but it is not always so, sometimes they are just different… very different.

For my second labour we went into it thinking we knew it all. Turns out we knew nothing!! First labour was textbook (see full story at First Labour Blog Post). Started with minor contractions, built up to major contractions, went to the hospital, had a baby. Less than 10 hours start to finish.

With my second labour it was not textbook at all.

Water broke early friday morning (right on the due date) at 2am, no signs of labour otherwise. Mozied on to the hospital for around 4am, still no signs of labour. Got to the hospital along with many other women who’s waters also broke at 2am, nurses were saying must have been a low pressure system or something. It was super busy so we couldn’t get a room, sat in a triage bed for a few hours, but at least I wasn’t one of the women labouring in the lounge! Got moved to a regular room around 8am, still no real labour, a few tiny contractions but nothing useful. Started to induce labour around 2pm, but baby didn’t do well with that idea so we stopped induction to give baby a rest, still no useful contractions. Started induction again at 7pm, nothing useful. 8pm the nurse thought a full bladder might be preventing baby from dropping, emptied bladder and had a baby 30 minutes later!! It was a bit intense going from 0 to 60 in a half hour, but at least it was over quick!!

So basically it was 18 hours of nothing and then 30 minutes with 5 major contractions, 1 big push and then baby! Not at all like our first!!

Then of course the hospital stay was completely different. First labour we had a private room and a pleasant experience. Second labour we had a shared room and an unpleaseant experience. We ended up signing out AMA just to get home and relax. We are so happy we did! More on this another day.

We now have a new baby girl – Ayla – 5 pounds 7 ounces. Here are some pictures.

Ayla's first weigh in at 5 pounds 7 ounces

Ayla's first weigh in at 5 pounds 7 ounces

Closeup of Ayla after birth

Closeup of Ayla after birth

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My First Labour

My First Labour was back in 2007, exactly 1 week before the actual due date.

The day before the labour I took the afternoon off of work, went home and took a nap, had a shower, shaved my legs. I was feeling great! Perfect time for all this last minute pampering since I was to go into labour that night at 2am!

Labour went well, much quicker than expected, but otherwise it was pretty textbook. Woke up at 2am with mild contractions, thought it was false labour. Started timing at 4am, woke Chris up at 5:30am, still thought it was false labour. I considered sending Chris to work (glad we didn’t do that! ). We thought about going to Salsbury House for breakfast (glad we didn’t do that!). Then around 7:00am we decided it wasn’t false labour and figured we should pack (yes, that’s right we weren’t packed in advance). Chris packed while I laboured. At 7:30am I told him to pack faster, then eventually told him to skip packing and only take the essentials which I quickly named off between contractions. Threw the essentials into the suit case and took off in very active labour. Got to the hospital around 8:30am and I was 8-9 cm dilated already. Wanted an epidural, couldn’t get one, we were too late. Got into my room around 9:00am and was 10cm and ready to push in no time. Pushed for less than 2 hours and he was born at 11:48am.

We got a private room at the hospital which was nice and the nurses were great. We watch hockey, ordered in Pizza and got to know our new baby boy – Connor James Crosbie – 6 pounds 11 ounces. It was a great weekend!

Of course there were a few challenges – learning to breastfeed being #1. He turned out to be a great breastfeeder in the end, it just took a bit of work upfront. Latching was the hardest part with both mom and baby doing it for the first time. Each time I fed him we spent 20 minutes trying to latch. Eventually though we both got the hang of it and were off to a wondeful breastfeeding experience.

Here are some pictures of our son.

Closeup of Connor just after birth

Closeup of Connor just after birth

Connor's first weigh in at 6 pounds 11 ounces

Connor's first weigh in at 6 pounds 11 ounces

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